성공의 바로 코 앞,꿈의 성취 딱 일보 직전,정상 도달 찰나순간에 그만 둬 버리고 중단해 버리고 중지해
버리기에 대개의 사람들이 결코 계획한 바의 성공을, 긴 세월 간직해온 소원을 이루지 못히고만다. 중단하는 순간
모든 것은'상황끝' 아무것도 달라지지도 변화되지도 않는다. 실패한 자는 단순히 중단했다는 그 사실때문에
실패하고, 반면 성공하는 성공자는 결코 포기하지 않는다는 사실 하나만으로이뤄진다. "무슨 얘기야 난 15년간을
이렇게 줄기차게 진행하고있는 데도 성공커녕 날이 갈수록 더 힘든다구요" 이건 끈기가 아니다. 성공이란다른
결과를 기대하면서다람쥐 채바퀴 돌듯 목표를 정해 놓고 목표와는 관계없는 일들을 행하고더욱꼭 같은동일하게
거듭거듭하는 것이 아니며 동일한 방법으로 똑 같이 또 하고 또 하는 것이 아니다. 이런걸 두고 우린 미친 짓
혹 또랑이라고도 한다. 성공으로 가는낚아채는 방법을 달리도 해보고,다른 것을 한번 시도도 해보고, 목표로 하는
것을 완전히바꾸어보기도 해봐야 한다. 끈기 있게 결코 포기하지 않으면서도 목표를 향한 계속된 노력을 해야한다.
어떤 경우에서도 결단코 포기를 해서는 안된다. 항상 해결책해결방안에 집중된 자세이어야 한다. 목표를 달성하고
성공을 즐기기 위해서는 어떤 장애나장벽이 성공진행 방향을 가로막고 아무리 방해하고 아무리 거칠게 밀어내더라도
성공의 흐름과 동일한성공 진행코스에 머물러야만 한다.식인 상어에게 산채로 잡아 먹히기 않으면서 식인 상어와
같이 수영해야만 한다.이런류의 잠재적인 장애나 방해요소는 외부적인 환경이라기보다는 자신의 내면에서일어나는
것들이기 때문에 틀림없이 확실히 성공가도에 견고히지탱해 낼 수가 있다. 거의 대부분의 장애가 외부적인 요인이라기
보다는마음 속에 또아리를 틀고 있으며항상포기할 빌미를 자신에게 끊임없이 불어넣어 준다. 마음이란 것이
원래부터포기함으로 편안해질려고하는 경향을 가지고 있으며 성공을 향해 내닫는, 진전을 향한발걸음을번잡스러운
것이라고 생각하는 습성을 가지고 잇다. 너무나 많은 사람들이 다른 방법은 시도도 해보지 않고 포기해버리고, 모든
가능성에 자신을 열어 놓지도 않으며 마음에 어떤 문제가 일어날 때는'아니야 나는 다 안다 이럴게 된다'라고 짐작
생각해 버린다. 그러면서 아주 합리적이고 건전해 보이는 무수한 변명들을 자신으로부터 받아들이면서 포기하도록
자신을 유도유혹해 버린다. 성공한 사람들은 자기 마음이 무슨 소리를 하든 새로운 것을 배울려는 자세로 모든 가능성에
자신을 열어 놓고 어떤 상황에서도 자신이 다 알고 있다는 자세를 취하지 않는다. 지레 짐작을 않는다.실패한 자들은
이와는 정 반대의 태도로 상황과사물을 재단한다. 아직도 성공을 못하셨다구요. 그렇다면 다른 방법을 한번 찾아보셔야만
합니다. 모든 할 수 있는 방법을 다 동원하셨다구요. 아님니다 지금 상태는 다만 성공하는 방법을 못 찾았음을 말하고
있읍니다. 여러 모든 가능한 방법을 모조리 전부 다 하나 하나 이렇게도 저렇게도 적용해 보십시요. 성공은 확실히
있다고요, 우주 구석구석에다 무수한 흔적을 남겨놓고 있지요.할 만큼 다 해 봤다구요, 아니죠 그렇다면 지금 성공한
사람의 자리에 앉아계셔야죠. 새로운 것을 계속 배우고 연구하시고 모든 가능한 방법들에 자신을 완전히 드러내어남다른
색다른 방법으로 또 한번만 시도해 보십시요.한번만이라기보다는 성공할 때까지지요. 이방법 저방법 이재료저재료 이순서
저순서이강도저강도 이세기저세기 이곳저곳 이때저때 이..저.. 10,000번이나 시도하고 실패하고 좌절하고 마침내
lightBulb에성공한 에디슨이 전등불 밝히고 환한 행운의 미소로 손짓하고 있는 것이 보이시죠
Most people never achieve their goals because they often quit just when they're on the verge of reaching their dream.
Let's face it if you give up - it's over and nothing changes. Those who fail quit. Those who succeed never give up.
I know some of you will say: "Karim, I'm persistent, I've been trying for the past 15 years and nothing has changed. I simply
can't keep trying."
Succeeding isn't about doing the same thing over and over again and hoping for a different result. That's insanity.
By staying persistent, by never giving up you continue striving toward your goals - but you may change your approach,
you could try something different, you may even change what you're aiming for completely - but you never give up.
You always look for a solution. To achieve your goals and enjoy success you have to stay on course
despite interference or any potential barriers that could throw you off course.
Now this interference is not limited to just outside sources - they can be internal.
What do I mean?
Your mind will often cause you to give up more often than interference from an outside source.
It's only because your mind is used to having things a certain way - and it's comfortable with failure. Success can be
jarring - it's not in your comfort zone.
Too often people give up, don't try a different option, refuse to stay open minded or think they know everything when really
it's just their mind running interference. Yes your mind can cause you to give up by giving you a number of excuses that
all sound legitimate but really are pretty lame.
Those who are persistent and successful usually don't think they know everything, are open to all possibilities, willing
to learn and try something new - despite what their mind might say - and will learn new things just about everyday.
Those who are persistent but fail - do the exact opposite. They sometimes think they know the outcome before they start,
they think they know everything, are not open to new possibilities, are not willing to try and learn something new -
but they continue to try and achieve all of their goals. This is not being persistent.
It's really doing the same over and over again hoping for a different result - which is insanity.
If you want to be persistent then you have to stay on course, and try a different approach, consider all options, be willing
to learn something new, stay open minded and don't assume you know everything - because after all, no one really knows everything. If that were the case we wouldn't be making new discoveries in different fields everyday.
By doing the above you force your mind to go in a different direction and no longer accept its excuses for not succeeding.
You no longer allow yourself to give up before even getting started.
At the same time you instruct your subconscious mind to help you succeed because you tell it that you are open to new options and ready to succeed at all costs. That you are willing to learn, grow and experience new things even if you may know something you're still willing to explore it from a new view point.
This is a fresh and robust approach to achieving your goals and when you do this you give your subconscious mind more options for you to succeed. And you prevent your mind from convincing you to give up.
You can achieve your goals - if you stay persistent. Try a different approach. Be willing to learn something new.
Don't accept that you know everything even if you think you're going through a familiar process - you may discover
something new.
Be open to any and all possibilities. Instruct your subconscious mind to help you find all options to help you succeed.
How to Work With The Power Of Persistence.
Now that you know that there is more to being persistent than just staying the course you can begin to work with the power
of persistence.
First - think about what you want. Then take a look at what you have been doing to achieve that goal -
write it down if you have to.
Next - push yourself to find and work with new methods to achieve your goals. Don't accept the idea or the belief that
you've tried everything. If you had truly tried everything you would have been successful already.
The truth is you've only tried everything that you know - and if you haven't succeeded there's either something that you
don't know or something that you haven't tried.
For example: When I was starting out as a Police Reporter in New York I was trying to break a particular story - but I wasn't having any luck. I kept doing everything that I had learned but it wasn't working. So after thinking about things for some time
- I decided to try doing everything that I thought would not work. I started using a different approach and refused to accept that I had tried everything. Within a month I broke one of the biggest stories in the city and country.
I know this process works for anything you want to achieve - but remember - you have to stay persistent and continue despite setbacks.
Thomas Edison went through ten thousand experiments before he figured out how to invent the light bulb. He stayed persistent, tried a different approach and never believed that he knew everything.
If you want to be wealthy, think of all the things you have tried, and then focus on finding a solution by searching for things you haven't tried.
You may think a certain approach won't work but if you haven't tried it - you don't know.
Search for new solutions. Stay persistent and change your approach.
To succeed you have to believe that you can achieve your goal,
believe that you can find the solution to achieve your goal and
believe that you deserve to achieve your goals.
Staying persistent and having a belief that you've tried everything and can't succeed is pointless - because your belief system isn't in line with what you want to achieve. Your subconscious mind picks up on your beliefs and creates your
reality based on what you believe. So if you are persistent and believe that you have tried everything and can't succeed - then your subconscious is not going to direct you to new solutions and will only guide you to situations that will help you
fail - after all, that's what you believe.
What can you do?
Change your beliefs.
If you're not achieving your goals and you're persistent - then your beliefs have to change. To do this you first change
your thoughts. Track your current thoughts and change those that don't work for you.
For example: if you believe that you can't succeed and have tried everything tell yourself that there's something you need
to try, or discover that will help you succeed. Tell yourself that you can achieve your goals - and that all you have to do is find the solution that will help you succeed. Push your mind to find a way to achieve your goals and in the process you'll instruct your subconscious mind to help you find the situations, people and events that will allow you to succeed.
If you don't believe there is a way - change that belief - and regularly tell yourself that there is a way. Then begin looking
for a new way to achieve your goal.
Try a different approach.
Be persistent - don't give up. If you give up - nothing changes and
you never achieve the success that you want.
Try a different approach.
Keep an open mind.
Be willing to learn something new.
Don't believe that you know everything.
Don't believe that you have tried everything.
Focus on finding new solutions and stay persistent.
Begin instructing your subconscious mind to help you find new ways
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