아인슈타인 그가 밝히는 성공의 3요소는 일과 휴식과 듣기다
일과 놀이는 누구나가 아는 또 행하는 것이나
3번째 요소인 듣기 입다물기는 좀 다르다
일반적으로 성공학강사나 동기유발강사들은
5분간의 듣기로 사귈 수있는 사람의 숫자는
5년간 관심을 끌려고 노력해서 맺는 사람의 수보다도 많다고 한다
헌데 아인슈타인의 듣기나 입다물기는 새롭다
말인즉
상대방이 말할 수있는 자랑할 수읶는 화두나 질문이나 꺼리를 던지고는
그냥 듣는hear이 아니고 귀기울이는 listen했다고 한다
Einstein’s Formula for Success
CONTINUED from above
1. Work: Einstein had a tremendous work ethic and because of that, gave more to society and modern science than any person in recent times.
2. Play: He did not, however, work 24 hours a day. Einstein made time for fun and relaxation. While his idea of fun might be different than yours, it doesn't mean it wasn't play.
3. Keep your mouth shut: My favorite part of Einstein’s success formula is this one. I believe that the person who talks the least says the most.
Albert Einstein had nothing to prove. He felt no need to be the "Chatty Cathy" he could have been with all of his knowledge. It wasn't important to him to talk to everyone he met or talk over their heads to show off his IQ. Instead he learned the value of quietness and solitude.
Shift your mindset. Don’t be a talker; be a listener. You can make more friends in five minutes by being interested in what others have to say than you can make in five years of trying to get others interested in you. So how do you become interested in them? You ask questions and then keep your mouth shut! Einstein realized he could influence people by choosing when to speak and validating others by extending them the courtesy of listening.