Hi don,
Very recently, I promised you a surprise. Well, here it is!
In the next few days you'll receive my highly acclaimed
'Self-Esteem Optimization' E-course delivered to your
inbox totally free of charge. This is a small token of
appreciation for the fact that you have become a member of
our -Success Achievers Club- and the -Success Code- Ezine.
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Today is Lesson 1: What you don't know will hurt you!
The origin of this bold statement goes back to the
fundamental law of cause and effect. There is a reason for
everything that manifests around us in our lives, whether
we are aware of our role in attracting it - or not!
Often times, we incorrectly tend to blame all kinds of
circumstances for the challenges we experience in life. We
fail to take responsibility for being the ultimate attractor
of these less than desirable events. When we learn how to
effectively shift how we think and behave in key situations,
we take responsibility to creating the results we desire.
Now the real question becomes: What do we need to improve
within ourselves so we become a more effective attractor of
our desired results?
The answer to this great question is simply: Your Level of
Self-Esteem!
don, Your level of self-esteem is the primary
determining factor that influences your behavior in EVERY
MOMENT of your Life!
You may be shocked to hear that my research has shown that
over 85% of us experience some form of diminished self-esteem
in our lives. For many, their overall self-esteem is at a low
point, but more often, for most people, poor self-esteem occurs
in certain situations and settings.
Most irritating is that it's in the key emotional moments of
your life that diminished self-esteem can hurt you most. For
example, you may be applying for a job and you are given a
tough question and all of a sudden, you start feeling
uncomfortable or you may even sabotage your chances by saying
something foolish because you lack the necessary self-esteem
to hold yourself as a great prospect for the company
interviewing you. Or, perhaps, it could be the area of dating
and intimacy where your poor self-esteem might prevent you from
achieving your desired result. All too often unproductive levels
of self-esteem in certain key areas are passed on to children
who experience problems similar to those that their parents have.
Or maybe it's a business setting where you sometimes feel
intimidated, shy or uncomfortable as a result of diminished
self-esteem.
don, I think it is fair to say that we all have
experienced our share of these types of situations. The GOOD
thing is -this does not need to continue to happen! You can be
as strong, confident, and productive as you wish in any situation
- and truthfully, you fully deserve that.
Through our communications and our products, I am committed to
showing you the way to realizing a stronger and healthier overall
level of self-esteem, where you will enjoy a higher quality of
life on a consistent basis.
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Getting back to Lesson 1: What you don't know will hurt you!
Not knowing that you have deficits in your level of self-esteem
will hurt you because you are unaware of the extent of the
problem that exists in your life. When you are unaware of a
problem, you can not solve it intentionally. In order to find
out where the problem is and how strong it is, please consider
the following few questions:
1) In what situations do you feel uncomfortable?
2) How might this discomfort prevent you from achieving what you
desire?
3) Would you be more productive in these important life areas if
you raised your level of self-esteem?
don, if you answered question 3 with a YES, then I
strongly advise you to be on the lookout for the next lesson
that you will receive from me shortly.
Since we know that we can improve the quality of our lives
by elevating our self-esteem, let's do just that in the next few
lessons!
I look forward to championing you to achieve every aspect of
your dream life. Together, we can make it happen.
Yours in Prosperity,
Dr. Joe Rubino
Your Life Optimization Coach
Your Strategic Business Coach
PS. This E-course is another tool to be used in conjunction
with The Self-Esteem Book: The Ultimate Guide to Boost the
Most Underrated Ingredient for Success and Happiness in Life.
I invite you to discover all the benefits of the book here:
http://www.TheSelfEsteemSystem.com/1/
다른 사람이 돈 버는 일을 도와 준다고 프라임타임시간의 tv를 열심히 보고 즐기다 보니 어느듯 대청봉엔 첫서리가 내리고 첫 얼음이 얼었다고 지난 해의 그 멘터 그대로를 전해주고 있다. 4분기중 3분기를 흘러보내고 이제 남은 한 분기 3달중 그 한달을 접고 있다. 세상릐 달력이 12월이 마지막 달로 되어 있으나 현실적으로는 11월에 모든 한 해의 일은 끝난다. 12월은 다만 정리하고 시작하는 달일 뿐이다. 새 프로젝트가 일어나지도 일어 날 수도 없다. 환갑 넘은 노인이 사업하겠다고 은행 대출 받으려는 형국과 동일하다.
어떠하신지요. 금년의 계획 목표는 얼마나 어느 정도 달성이 되셨나요.저는 africa얘들에게 좀 물렸습니다. 성패 달성의 정도가 상대방_자금_여건_환경 등때문이었던 것 같지요. 그래요 그럴 수도 있습니다. 그러나 근본적으로 그 성패 달성의 정도는 오직 자기자신이 그렇게 되도록 했을 뿐입니다.
자신이 자신을 보는, 판단하는, 평가하는, 인식하는, 느끼는, 점수를 주는 자기존중심 자존감의 바로 지금의 이 '결과'를 이룩한 것입니다. 전적으로 자신의, 자신만의 책임입니다. 스스로가 스스로를 겨우 '고'정도로 밖애 보지않으면서 어찌하여 '고'정도 이상의 결과를 기대할 수 있겠습니까. 성패와 달성의 크기는 다만 한 원칙 "나의 자존감"의 크기에 달려 있습니다. 자신이 자신의 능력을 높이 평가하고 그런 자신을 높이 받들어 존중할 때 주변의 모든 것들도 그대'나'자신을 존중하고 받들고, 나아가 받들고 존중하는 위대한 지고의 결과물을 만들어 낼 수 있습니디. 노는 것도 쉬는 것도 즐기는 것도 스스로를 존경할 수 있는 스스로가 탄복하는 그런 흐름을 택한다면 휴일은 성공삶을 보장하는확실한 재충전의 도구가 된다. 자신에게 질문 한 번 해 보십시요
11. 자신의성공 목표달성을 생각할 때, 향할 때어떤영역에서 불안감 불편함 어색함이 있습니까
22. 이런 불확실성이 어떤 방법으로 자신의 성공을 항한 발걸음에 압침을 뿌립니까
33. '자기존중심''자존감'이 향상 된다면, 고양된다면 성공 달성이 확실할 것 같습니까
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