'나가뒈져라'라는 얘길 밥먹기보다 더 자주 열심히 듣고 자랐다 그래도 이 엄청난 현실에서
큰 아쉬움 없이 잘 살아간다. 학교갈 버스 삯 30환 달라는 내게 나의 선친께서 늘상 하시던
말씀이셨다. 그래도 대개의 경우 차비는 주시는 편이셨다. 부모가 자식에게, 자식이 부모로부터
듣는 이런 투의 말은 그렇게 유해하지를 않다. 그러나 자신이 자신에게, 나가나에게 ... 머리로,
생각으로, 마음으로 느낌으로 주고 받는 이런 말은 성공재벌출세의 최악의 적이요 걸림돌이다.
혼잣말 독백 스스로말 마음의말...자기가자기에게하는 이런 류의 말은 잠재의식에 뿌리내린다.
특히 절대로 결코 해서는 안되는 10가지 혼자밀 독백 머리속말 생각의말이 있다.
111. 왜리도못났을까 나는 정말 부족해
222. 난할 수없어, 나는 할 수 없다
333. 아 두려워 그들이 나를 어떻게 생각할까
444. 왜 일도 쓸모가 없을까. 나는 뚱뚱해/지혜롭지못해/초라해/...
555. 나는사랑받을구석이 전혀없다. 그어떤년놈도 나를 사랑하는 자는 ㅓㅄ다
666. 인생이 왜이리도 불공평한가
777. 인생은 고해다 세상살이가 너무어렵다
888. 죽음이 올까봐 죽을까봐 겁난다.
999. 그 년놈이 날 싫어하는 게 틀림없어
000. 포기한다 그만둔다 접는다.
You Said WHAT? 10 Things You Should Never Say To Yourself
The Law of Attraction teaches that our words play an incredibly important part in the lives and happiness we create for ourselves.
Our words steer and shape our energies – in either a positive or a negative direction. We are not only susceptible to the words others use, but the words we use with ourselves.
Essentially, our words – spoken aloud or internally as thoughts – create our world.
If this is the case, why do so many people still think that it’s ok to talk to themselves in such a negative manner? A lot of people will say things to themselves they wouldn’t dream of saying to a friend. Is this right? Absolutely not.
So what can you do?
Watch out for these 10 things you should never say to yourself.
1. ‘I’m not good enough.’
But the real question is, by whose standards? Stop being so tough on yourself. We can all be our own worst critic, but this shouldn’t be the case. Have you ever heard of the saying ‘we accept the love we think we deserve?’ How do you expect others to recognise your worth when you’re unable to even see it in yourself? Become your biggest cheerleader!
2. ‘I can’t do it.’
Don’t give up before you’ve even got started. If it’s true that where your mind goes your reality follows, take your mind to that place of confidence and success. Learn to hold what you want in your mind’s eye first and chances are, it’ll soon be yours.
3. ‘What will they think of me?’
Too many people live in fear of what others may or may not think about them. However, life’s too short to get caught up in such things. Live your life as YOU – there is no surer guarantee for happiness.
4. ‘I’m so fat/stupid/useless.’
Whoa there! You wouldn’t talk to a stranger in this way, let alone someone you love, so why use such harsh words with yourself? If you do find yourself getting hung up on aspects of yourself you’re unhappy with, resolve to take quick action – beginning by focusing on the things you DO love about yourself.
5. ‘Nobody loves me.’
This is nothing but self-pity talking; how could you know who does or does not love you? We are all worthy of love and if we were to think hard enough, would find that there is love to be found in our lives in even the most unexpected of places. And remember – the more loving you are yourself, the more love you are likely to receive in return.
6. ‘Life is so unfair.’
We all come up against hardships and pain at different points in our lives; however, these are often aspects of our lives that are beyond anybody’s control. So let it go and learn to accept that whilst life can have its difficult moments – it’s the good moments you ought to focus on.
7. ‘It’s too hard.’
Are you sure about that? Or is this just your insecurities and fears talking? Remember the power of mind over matter – and until you try, you’ll never know how hard it is.
8. ‘I’m so embarrassed I could die.’
We’ve all had those moments where we’ve wanted nothing more than the ground to swallow us whole. What you have to remember is that everybody has embarrassing moments and that in the grand scheme of things – these really aren’t such a big deal. Laugh it off.
9. ‘They must not like me.’
Perhaps someone hasn’t returned your calls or replied to your emails…maybe you didn’t get the promotion or asked out on a second date…Rather than tormenting yourself by making negative conclusions such as ‘they must not like me’ or thinking harshly of yourself, why not consider the more rational, positive reasons here? It is far more likely that the person in question has been busy or had to handle an unexpected problem. Whatever the reason, it is never as bad as you imagine.
10. ‘I give up’.
There is no obstacle too big that with the right support, you cannot overcome. Always remember this. Also – it is often when we feel closest to giving up that we are closest to achieving what we want most. So remember – keep going, keep going, keep going!
Once you’re able to recognise just how big of an impact your own words can have on your happiness, you’ll never want to say any of the above to yourself ever again. So give more positive self-talk a try – and enjoy the many benefits!
How Abundant Are YOU?
Update: Studies found that positive people are more abundant and achieve goals more often and faster….
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이런 일상적이고정상적인 것으로 치부되어지는 것들 이런 10가지를 일일이 기억하고 행하고
지켜낸다는 것이 그리 쉬운이른 아닐 것이다. 이런 10가지 뿐남 아니라 이 유사한 것이나 이런
것으로부터 파생돈 독소부정조항을 삶에서 몰아내고 바라고원하는 성공출세재벌을 이루어내는
한가지는 '감사;;고마움'이다. 지금이순간 이현실 바로오늘현재를 감사의 마으므로 감사의 생각으로
살아 ㄱ란다면 이런 독약부정은 저절로 물러가 사라질 뿐만 아니라 더큰 더많은 더깊은 ..감사와의
조우가 이뤄진다. 감사는 성공재벌출세를 싣고 오는 기관차요 담아내는 그릇이다
Gratitude is the most powerful force in the Universe.
When you truly feel grateful for who you are and for what you have, you can bring what you want into your life easily and effortlessly.
Every dreamer, who is on their journey to achieve their dreams, comes across various types of fears. Nobody can completely eliminate fear from their life, but success comes only to those who go beyond their fears.
But how can you move beyond your fears?.…………. The answer is “With Gratitude”.
Many of you must be thinking, it is the courage, bravery or boldness that will help you to conquer your fears. Yes, that is correct, they are the conscious forces with which you can tame your fears. These forces are already existing within you, but you are not able to awaken these giants in you because you are not recognising them. You are not able to feel and believe that your mind, body and soul is gifted with immense power to go beyond your fears and conquer success.
To create the recognition of this power in your life, you must recognise what you have been gifted with within you. And this process of recognition begins only with GRATITUDE.
If you have the fear of failure or fear of success, if you have the fear of losing your money or the love that you receive from others, if you have the fear of being weak or unprepared, then under this shadow of fear, you are not only losing your peace and happiness but also your true abundance in life. No matter what your fear is, it is controlling your life. You are destined to live your abundance and to do, have or be anything you want.
Now is the time to recognise your gift of life and you can only do this when you start practicing gratefulness. Because, the moment in which you start thinking about gratitude, that is when you start seeing what you have rather than what you lack.
Recognise, what you have now and be grateful for it. If you are talented, if you are gifted with a special skill, if you are an artist, speaker, writer, actor, inventor, doctor or engineer, be grateful for it. If you are great in loving others, taking care of people, good in communication, be grateful for it. If you are physically strong or a great athlete is grateful for it. If you have a great job or a loving family or awesome friends, be grateful for it. Recognise your gifts and be grateful for them.
Once you start being grateful for what you have, you will develop the inner strength in your soul, and this is the moment when the giant forces of courage, bravery and boldness awaken within you and your soul takes a leap of faith to conquer all your fears.
When you live your life with gratitude, you will magnetise the forces of nature to help you on the quest of your dreams. Don’t wait till you get shaken up by your fears to start practicing gratitude, instead give gratitude for what you have in life to get what you want in life.
The key to your abundance is gratitude.
When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears.
The Universe