How to Create Exactly What You Want
By Robert Anthony, Ph.D,
Creator of The Secret of Deliberate Creation
Take a trip to any jail or prison and you will meet hundreds of people who will tell you they are the "victims" of their circumstances.
Travel through any big city ghetto and you'll hear the same thing.
Visit any affluent, high-class neighborhood, talk to the people there and you'll discover the same thing.
Visit a middle-class neighborhood in New York, Toronto, London or Sydney and you will meet people who believe they are the result of their circumstances, good or bad.
감방에 감옥에 형무소에 구치소에 등지에 가면 만원이다 아주 빈방이 없을만큼`말이다, 그러나 그들에게 왜 여기에 이곳에 이런대를 오게됐냐고 물어보면 그마노은 사람의 대답은 한가지다. 자기 잘못죄가 아니라 사회환경주변여건의 잘못이라고 한다. 그 뿐 아니라 도시의 스램가할렘가 산동네 판자촌을 한 번 가보라. 빈집 없이 꼭꼭 끼어서 많이들 살고 있다. 왜들 이런 곳에서 이렇게 어렵게 힘들게 사시느냐고 물어ㅗ보라 대답은 한결 같이 하나다. "사회가..""세상이 ..."
그래 그들 말이 맞다 다 맞다 틀린 곳 하나 없다. 그러면 사회의 1% 세상의 1%거부재벌들은 그런세상 그런환경 그런주변 그런여건을 살지 않고 전혀 색다른공기의 색다른중력의 세상을 살았던가. 아니다 절대로아니다 다 같이 동일한 태양아래 동일한사회규범 아래 살았다. 그런데 왜 어떤 넘은 떵떵거리며살고 어떤놈은비실비실사는가. 간단하다 이유는 하나다
사건은 환경은 주변은 여건은 누구에게나 동일하게 일어 난다. 차이는 이 일어나는 사건 여건 주변 환경을 어떻게보고 어떻게인식하고 어떻게생각하고 어떻게받아들이고 어떻게대응하는가의 차이 뿐이다.
They will talk about the opportunities they were given, or the chances they were denied. They may be grateful for the education they were exposed to, or complain they were denied the education they deserve.
One person will tell you about her wonderful childhood and upbringing was, while another will complain that she came from a "dysfunctional" family.
There is no denying that income, status, education, upbringing, neighborhood, family and many other situations will influence, effect and even determine the outcome of our lives.
But who creates the circumstances?
Your parents? Your environment? God? Destiny? Lost in all this analysis and the assumption of almost every unconscious person I have ever met is this one very important reality.
The effect of our thoughts ABOUT our circumstances.
We cannot change what happened to us, but we can change our PERCEPTION about what happened to us. This is the key to changing our present circumstances and our future.
Our minds are like a garden. We can intelligently cultivate our garden, or we can allow it to run wild. If you diligently attend to your garden, it will produce the things you cultivate.
If you don't plant specific seeds, then the animals, wind and other elements will cause RANDOM things to grow which will likely to choke out the things you want to cultivate from your garden.
One thing is certain, *SOMETHING* WILL GROW IN YOUR GARDEN!
Just as a gardener must tend his or her garden, keeping out the weeds, you must tend the garden of your mind, weeding out the thoughts of lack, limitation and negativity.
If you practice gardening of this kind, you will soon discover that you are the gardener of your soul. You will come to the profound revelation that you are not the victim of your circumstances--but the creator of them.
The reason is simple: Whatever you give your attention to and focus on shapes your character, creates your circumstances, and determines your ultimate destiny.
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What you experience in your life is directly connected to your inner state of mind. The most important thing you can learn about success, prosperity and happiness is that cause (thought) and effect (results or experiences) are one.