자연으로 돌아가자
기다림과 인내를 같은 것으로 알고 막연히 어떻게 잘 되겠지하면서 시간을 허비하는 것을 기다림waiting
이라 하고지금 현재 할 수 있는 모든 것을 다하면서 시절을 타는 것을 인내patience라 한다. 그러고 보면
아무 것도 하지 않고 가만히 앉아 있으면서도 일 하는 것은 암닭 뿐인 것 같다. 대부분의 인간들은 무엇이든
즉시 이뤄지길 원하여 즉석복권 즉석미팅 번개팅에 번개섹스에 즉석불고기에 심지어는 기백만불이라는 거금도
하룻밤 사이에 거뭐지기를 원한다. 그러하지라도 여인이 땅에 발을 붙이고 걷기 시작한 이래 임신에서 출산
아기의 출생을 10달보다 단축할 수 있었던가. 지구 저쪽으로 한 순간에 음성을 보내고 똑딱하는 순간에 멜을
보내는 오늘의 현실이라할지라도 씨를 뿌리고 물을 주는 그 결실의 과정을 단축할 수는 없다. 금방 태어난
아기가 " 엄마 고마워요"인사한 경우가 있었던가. "아 답답해서 혼 났다 밖에 좀가봐야겠다"고 태어나면서
걸어나갔다는 사실이 있었던가. 돌은 돼야 서고 두돌은 되야 말하는 것은 자연의 법칙이다. 즉시 결과를
얻겠다는 것은 자연과 그 법칙을 거역하고 창조주에 대항하는 자세가 되어 결과적으로 자신과 자신의 목표에
해와 악을 더하는 행위가 된다. 기다리지 못하는 성급함 초조로움은 잠재력에 부정적인 메시지를 전달하게
되고 결과적으로 목표달성으로부터 멀어지게 된다. 인간은 자연의 일부다 자연은 그 자신 고유의 시간표를
가지고있다. 인간이란 자연도 그 시간표에선 예외일 수가 없다. 오늘 당장 이상형의 여인을 만날 수는 있다
그러나 사랑의관계 연인의관계 결혼의관계에 이르기에는 시간표에따른 시간이 소요 된다. 내일 당장 원하는
직업직장물건을 얻을 수는 있다 그러나 그것들을 통한 성공에는 고유 시간표에따른 견딤의 시간을 필요로한다.
견디지 못하는 성급함은 일이 제대로 될 것이란 사실을 믿지도않고 받아들이지도않는 암시의 한 행태 실제로는
지연과 오히려 반대의 결과가 일어나면서 엉뚱한상황이 벌어지게 된다. 목표 달성을 위해 할 수 있는 모든
것을 지금 행동으로 옮겨라 아니면 기회는 지나가버린다
Just about everybody I speak to tells me they want things right away. Some even want to have millions of dollars right now.
I know you want to achieve you goals sooner rather than later -especially since we live in a world of instant gratification. Let's face it - you can send a message to someone half-way around the world and it will get there in seconds. We have text messaging and cell phones - that allow instant communication. Things get done pretty quickly today.
But it still takes 9-months for a woman to deliver a child.
It still takes that child just over a year to start walking and at least a couple of years to start talking. It still takes a vegetable
a few months to grow from a small seed -I know - I'm still waiting for my tomatoes which I just planted.
While you may want to achieve your goals instantly the truth is that your desire to create changes right away may actually
be doing more harm than good.
Why? Because you're being impatient - and that means you're working against nature. Impatience sends a negative message to your subconscious and at the same time - you're not working in accordance with nature and in the end you're not utilizing what I call the Power Of Patience. When you're impatient about achieving their goals they actually push themselves further away from success. Most of us want things yesterday. When we decide we want to achieve something we want it right away, and when we decide we want to change or improve ourselves we want that change to happen quickly so we can begin enjoying our lives, and enjoying success. But we're part of nature and nature doesn't create change in
an instant. And therefore, changes within us can't happen instantly. The process can begin instantly - but the change
itself cannot. We're part of nature and we must work in accordance with nature and its timetable.
Women have been delivering babies since they walked the earth - and it still takes 9-months. I know, we would like this
to happen sooner - but we accept that we have to let nature take its course -so we're all patient when it comes to having
a baby. When it comes to achieving your goals, your subconscious mind, just like nature, has to work through a process
and allow you to progressively move closer to achieving your goals. Ralph Waldo Emerson perhaps said it best in one simple line: "Adopt the pace of nature, her secret is patience." That patience can lead to the perfect life - if you understand how to work with the Power of Patience and nature together.
Why Patience Is Critical to Success Ask any successful businessman or entrepreneur and they'll tell you that they never
rush into a decision. Sure they'll follow their gut instinct - but they'll take plenty of time researching, studying and thinking - waiting until the right moment to make a decision. Nature works through a process and it has a great deal of patience.
For example: you plant a seed, water it, leave it for some time, then at the right time - when all the right elements are in place -that seed turns into a flower, a vegetable or whatever seed you planted. This only happens when the conditions are right. But, there was work to be done before those elements came into place. The seed had to be planted, it had to be nurtured,
it had to be left alone to begin to grow and spring roots under the soil, then at the right time - it began to rise above the surface into exactly what it was meant to be. Believe me I know this process. I've been busy getting my vegetable garden and am patiently waiting for all those wonderful vegetables. I get excited when I see them sprout but this project can only
be successful with a lot of patience. Without the prior work of planting, and watering - the seeds would never spring
above the ground. I know some of you have your own vegetable or flower gardens and you may already be reaping
the rewards of the hard work. If you want to achieve your goals you have to practice the same kind of patience.
That doesn't mean you sit around and wait. Instead you have to do the work first, lay the foundation, plant the seed, make sure the soil is right - prepare and then wait for all the elements to come into place before making the right decision that will propel you to greater success. Unfortunately most people don't practice this process and then one day they realize that
they want more out of life, that things just aren't good enough the way they are and that things have to change right away -
in the end they feel pressed to make changes immediately - only to get frustrated when things don't change instantly.
Hey - it simply doesn't work that way.
When you work against nature you get pushed back further. If you want to be successful you have to practice a certain amount of patience. Think about what you want to achieve, think about the changes you want, begin the process of creating change by knowing what you want and why. Start taking the right action. Get your mind and subconscious mind working for you today so that you achieve your goals when all the elements are right for you. Work with the power of patience.Get started today
How Impatience Works Against You. When you're impatient - when you don't trust and accept that things will work out -
you actually get slowed down, distracted or end up on the wrong track - then you wonder: "How did I get here?" Here's
an example: suppose you're in line waiting to pay for something - and it's a rather long line but there's another cashier
with an equally long line. If you huff and get angry - it won't change anything. If you jump to the other line - it may actually take longer (I'm sure many of you have had this happen), if you leave - you quit and don't get what you want. You might leave thinking you'll come back when the line is shorter - only to never go back. By being impatient you either got angry, thought the grass was greener on the other side - but actually waited longer or you quit and never got what you wanted.Had you been patient, you would have made your payment and moved on. Don't assume that the grass is greener on the other side - deal with what you have and what you know - be patient and you'll make the right decision.
There is a process that needs to take place. Just like that seed can't grow above the ground in 3-days - that seed has to
go through its natural process. So do you - and part of that process is growing, learning, understanding and developing
the confidence in your ability so that you can continually make milli?s of d?lars throughout your life.
If you want to make a milli? d?lars - you could look for that quick fix, make risky investments, try different schemes, gamble,
buy lottery tickets - but you would likely lose more money in the process.The smarter option would be to lay a foundation
to make a milli?d?lars - perhaps you could start building a business and increase your revenue year over year.
You could start with more solid investments - and build on them year over year. You could come up with a solid fin?cial
plan and build on it year over year. The desire to get things right away ignores the process of nature, eliminates the power
of patience and will just set you back further.We operate on the same schedule, the same platform as nature.
We start off as infants, grow to adults, age and pass on. Just like aspects of nature.
Success in life doesn't happen overnight. Creating a business and making it a success requires patience.
Having impatience in business is inviting disaster. Relationships take time to build and improve - having impatience in
a relationship is a sure way to end it. Finding the right job requires patience and effort, having impatience in a job search is
a sure way to get rejected. Things can happen in an instant - but your success in them will require patience.
For example: You may meet a partner tomorrow - but the success of that relationship will require patience - so that it has
the time to grow and succeed. You could come up with a business idea tomorrow - but its success will require patience. You could find a job tomorrow - but your success at it will depend on how patient you are not only on the job - but also with co-workers and bosses.
Begin laying your foundation for success today. Start planting your seeds now - so that you achieve your success in
the future. Success can and will be yours - when you work with the power of patience and simple laws of nature.
Let your subconscious mind guide you to the situations people and places that will catapult you to success - visit:
How Patience Pays Off. I can best illustrate how the power of patience brings enormous rewards with an example of Peter - and old friend of mine who has had a very successful career and rewarding life. Peter and another friend Desmond, started working at the same company - both had similar entry-level positions and both had great ambitions. Peter was always the more patient, laid back type. Desmond was on the hyper side - always itching to get something done, showing little patience and always wanting to move up quickly. After a year on the job Desmond was looking to move on and find something new. He demanded a higher salary or a promotion - threatening to leave.A few months later he left the company and tried to talk Peter into doing the same thing. Peter - chose to stay. Desmond went from job to job - always looking for something better. The longest he ever stayed at a job has been 2 years. When I last spoke to him he was out of work and looking again. He said his name had been tarnished, because he had gone through so many companies in such a short period of time. "I guess they just don't want somebody who has no patience with management." He explained when we had lunch. I thought
it was fascinating - his impatience had actually worked against him. Peter is still with that same company and is now a Senior Manager in line to be Vice President of his own division within a few years. His salary has tripled and he has the seniority and respect of his superiors. "I guess they just like the fact that I've stayed and put up with them. It has its up and downs - but I try to focus on the good and hope my patience will pay off." I recall Peter saying when I spoke to him just before writing this newsletter.
The power of patience is incredible and will bring wonderful results when you work with it. I'm not asking you to sit around and wait for things to happen. Peter didn't do that and I don't practice that. Develop an understanding that things take time
to happen - that you do the work and you reap the benefits when the time is right.
I used this same power of patience to get the right job, meet the right people, find the right home and I've even worked with the Power of Patience to make positive investment decisions.
If you planted a seed and stood over it waiting for it to sprout through the ground - you'd go crazy. If you planted a seed and
ignored it - it would die. If you planted a seed and placed a rock on top of it - it would never flourish. But if you planted a seed and did the work to help it grow, cared for it - it would flourish and thrive.
This is how the Power of Patience works.Do your work, do the best that you can - be patient and understand that things will fall into place at the right time. If you want a new job - do what you can to find a new job, go out and do the work, but then practice patience - knowing that it will come at the right time. I know some of you may say: "Karim, I need the job now." Remember - your impatience will work against you. But if you utilize the powers of your mind and subconscious mind as I outline in my Creating Power system -you'll be able to attract the right job and the right situation at the right time.
Patience vs. Waiting. There is a difference between being patient and waiting.I know some of you will say: "Karim, I've been waiting and waiting for life to improve but it never does. I guess I'll just keep waiting but I'm really tired of this."Waiting is wasting time. Waiting is not patience. Patience requires that you do everything that you can to improve your life while understanding that the changes will happen at the right time. You then prepare and trust that the changes will happen.
When you're waiting you're basically hoping, and doing very little to improve your life. Don't sit around and wait - only a fool would do that.Work with the power of Patience by doing what you can to improve your life, knowing that things will improve and then examining opportunities that allow you to improve your life. If you sit around and wait you'll likely miss those opportunities.
You can achieve your goals. You can enjoy success, happiness and more. Direct your mind and subconscious mind
to help you create the life you want. Start working with the power of patience and begin moving toward