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자기암시 자기긍정은 과연 능력이 있는가?
자기암시를 거듭 거듭 반복하면 인생이 달라지고 또 인생을 변화시킬 수 있다는 얘길
들어면서 살아왔다. 자기암시가 정말로 실 생활에서 효과를 발휘하는가.
정답은 "그렇다"와"아니다"이다. 어째 좀 혼란스러우시죠.
약간은 혼란스러우실거예요. 적합하게 합리적으로다른 방법기교와 더불어
합당하게 적용되어질 때 효력이 확실히 나타나며 삶의 확실한 차이를 경험할 수 있게 된다.
잘못된 자기암시란 틀린 방법으로 불합리하게 부적합하게 적용되는 형태의 것으로
절대로 그 효과가 나타나지도 않고 어떻한효과도 맛볼 수 없고 오히려 원치 않는,
피하고픈비참한 결과를 만나게된다.
자 그럼 어떻게해야정확한 암시를 올바르게 적용하여 내 인생에서
내가 바라고 원하는 것을 얻어낼 수 있을까
자기 암시는 필수적으로 생각의 통제를 받는다. 생각은 잠재의식에 보내는 지령명령지시이다.
반복되는 생각이 신념을 형성하고 얼마간의 시간이 흐른후 반복적으로 생각하는 것을 저절로 믿게되고
믿기 시작한다. 단지 교통사고를 당할 것이라는 생각만으로 교통사고를 당한다는 것을 의미하지는 않는다.
자기 자신에게 반복적으로 사고를 당할 것이라고 얘기한다는 것 역시도사고를 당한다는 것을 의미하지는
않는다.
사고가 일어날 것이라고 확실히 믿을 때 사고는 사필귀정 꼭 일어난다, 틀림없이 일어난다.,그러니 자기 암시가
현실로 그 모습을 나타내기를 위해서는 자기암시 사실이 일어나고야만다는 사실을 확실히 틀림없이 믿어야 한다는
것이다. 바라는 것 자기암시를 행하고 있는 그것이 일어남을 믿지 않을 때 그곳엔 아무런 결과가 없다. 자기암시가
확실히 일어난다고 믿을 때 올바른 자기암시가 만들어지고 또유효한 자기 암시가 형성되어지는 것이다.
"돈이 나에게로 자연스레 아주 쉽게 흘러들어 온다"라고 자기암시 자기긍정을 많은 사람들이 행하고 안되더라고
불평하는 것중의 하나이다. 안될수 밖에 없는 것이 돈이란 물처럼 흐르는 것이 아니다. 손의 수고를 필요로하고 또
재화용역의 교환으로 버는 것이고 더욱돈을 벌기위해 일하고 일의 댓가로 돈을 받는 것이다. 그러니 돈이 내게 흘러
들어 온다고 자기암시를 하고 또 해봐도 자신의 마음이 돈이 흐른다는 개념을모르기때문에 이런 류로는 잠재의식에게
지시를 내릴수가 없고 또 내린다고 해도잠재의식은 뭔지를 모르니 그냥 멀뚱멀뚱할 수 밖에 없다. 자기 암시를 걸 때,
자기긍정을 행할 때 그런 상황이 일어난 참고점 조회점이 있으야만 마음이 이를 받아 잠재의식에 그런 상황을 전달하고
잠재의식은 참고로한 상황, 조회한 사실을 이룩해내기 시작한다. "나는돈을 쉽게 버는 법을 안다"라고 하면 마음은 이를
액면 그대로 받아들인다. 그리고는 쉽게 버는 것을 믿기 시작한다. 믿는 바가이루어지기 위해서는 자기암시 상황을
지원하는 실제 일어난 상황을 말하는조회처 참고점을 필요로한다. 이전의 내 경험이나 다른 사람이 쉽게 돈을 번 그런
실제 상황을 알아야하고 또 마음 속에 존재해 있으야 한다. 그러면 내 마음은그런 ㅊㅁ고 근거 사실상황을받아 들이고
또 믿기 시작한다. "나는 백만장자다"라고 해도 마음은 이를 인정하지 않는다. 다만 백만장자가 되는 방법에는 백만가지가
있고 나는 내게 맏는 내 현실에 적합한 올바른 방법을 발견하여 백만장자가 되겠다할 때 마음은 이를 인정하고 받아들여
백만장자의 길로 나를 인도하게 된다
Do affirmations really work?
Most of you have probably heard that saying affirmations over and over again can change your life.
Or that running a software program that flashes affirmations on your computer screen can create
changes - but do they really work?
The answer is yes and no!
Maybe you're a little confused by my answer so let me explain. The right affirmations, done properly and applied
with other techniques can really make a difference. The wrong affirmations,said the wrong way and not applied properly will be completely ineffective, and can create disasters in your life.
So just how do you apply the right affirmations in the right way so that you get results?
How Affirmations Work. Affirmations are essentially controlled thoughts.
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Thoughts are instructions sent to your subconscious mind. Thoughts repeated regularly become beliefs.
After a while you start to believe what you repeatedly think. Now just because you think that you might get into
a car accident doesn't mean that you will get into a car accident. But if you repeatedly tell yourself that you will get
into a car accident also doesn't mean that you will get into a car accident.
You have to believe that you will get into a car accident. So for affirmations to really work you have to believe them.
If you have an affirmation that doesn't work and is not getting results it may be because you don't believe the affirmation, you don't believe what you are saying. But you can get affirmations to work if you create the right
affirmations, apply them correctly and use other techniques to help you believe the affirmations that you continually recite. Here's an example of a poor affirmation that will likely have little or no impact. It's one I've heard people use
over and over only to get frustrating results, here it is: Money flows to me naturally and easily.
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Why won't this affirmation work?
First of all money doesn't flow. It's not a river and your mind cannot identify with this concept of money flowing.
Money is something you earn, you work for it. Money exchanges hands. You give something to get money; even winning the lottery requires that you give money to get a ticket that may win. You don't see money flowing and your mind cannot accept the fact that money flows because there is no reference point that suggest money flows.
In order for the affirmation to work your mind has to be able to accept it, believe it and this requires a reference point.
If you said: I know how to make money easily your mind would likely be able to accept this affirmation and you could begin to believe it. But in order to believe the affirmation your mind will need a reference point to support it. You may have to refer to a time that you made money easily. You may have to look at other people who are making money easily. When you have a reference point that supports your affirmation - something that your mind can refer to in order to support the affirmation, it becomes easier for your mind to accept and believe the affirmation.
For example: saying an affirmation like: I'm a millionaire, is difficult to accept unless you were once a millionaire.
But an affirmation that says: There are plenty of ways to make a million d'ollars and I've found the right way to make a million d'ollars, can be easier to accept because you can come up with many ways that people have made a million dollars. When you do that you give the affirmation a reference point that supports it. For example: you could list all the ways that people have made millions of d'ollars. If you want affirmations to work - create the right affirmations.
Make sure your affirmations are targeted and have a solid reference point. Your affirmations should be believable,
so support the affirmation by giving it examples of how they can be accomplished. Start creating the right affirmations today
How To Get Affirmations To Work
Affirmations are really thoughts and your thoughts are affirmations. So if you repeatedly say negative things to yourself
or have negative thoughts then you're really feeding your subconscious mind negative instructions. You're really saying negative affirmations. If you say an affirmation once a day and then fill your mind up with negative thoughts, negative examples and have an overall negative attitude your affirmation will never work.
Saying an affirmation once a day will have little or no impact. You need to say your affirmations regularly throughout
the day. Filling your mind up with negative thoughts and having an overall negative attitude will eliminate the power
of your affirmations. If you want your affirmations to have an impact and help you create the changes you want then you'll have to change your attitude so that what you think is in line with what your affirmation says.
For example: If you want to get a new job and you say: I've found a new job, you can't follow it up with a series of negative thoughts like: there are no good jobs. Nobody's hiring. That kind of attitude will lead to negative results
- like not finding a job or finding a job that you don't like. For the affirmation to work you have to have an attitude and thought process that is in line with what you want to achieve. Create affirmations that you can believe.
Create affirmations that you can support with a solid reference. Your attitude and mindset should be in line with your affirmation - that means eliminating negative thoughts. Start creating positive affirmations that work and direct your
subconscious mind to help you achieve your goals. Keep your affirmations short and simple. Keep them in the present
tense.
Affirmations are meant to direct your subconscious mind to create the life you want. But there are many other echniques that you can work with to help you direct your subconscious mind to create the life you want. Saying an affirmation while working with other techniques will catapult your results. One step is to eliminate negative thinking.
Fill your mind up with positive thoughts, think of possibilities instead of limitations, think of why you can instead of why you can't, and support others in their quest to make their lives better.
Give yourself some time to achieve your goals and create the changes you want. Things won't change or improve overnight. While the process will begin instantly - change will take time. Often people give up just when they're on the verge of achieving their goals. Don't give up. If you feel like giving up push yourself to continue a little longer.
You have unlimited powers. You are a remarkable human being. You are capable of doing anything you want -
as long as you direct your subconscious mind to help you achieve your goals and believe that you can - you will.
Create the right affirmations. Work with all your powers. Learn to direct the power of your subconscious mind to
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