리모콘홀릭
Hey Don,
왜 그리도 많은 사람이 tv를 거실 중앙 삶의 중앙에 모셔놓고 살아 가고 있을까. 무료하고 무기력하고 심심하고 뭔가 지향점이 없는 멍청한 순간에 시간에 그런 때에는 무심결에 기냥 tv를 켠다, 그럼 tv를 한 번 켜 놓고 쭉 기냥 그것만 보고 있을까 아니지 절대로 아니지요. 수십 거의 백여개나 되는 무수한 극장을 다 들어갔다 나왔다 하지요 더욱 금방 들어가 본 곳도 모른 채 또 들어다보지요. 이런 류의 사람이 다른 사람이 만나면 하는 말은 딱 두가지로 분류됩니다. 그 중 하나가 "야 세월 참 빠르지 시간이 어쩜 이렇게 빨리 지나갈까"이고 다른 하나는 "야 요즘 경제 왜 일어렵노. 스페인 이태리 사이프러스 온 세계가 정말 난리야 난리" 혹 이런 류의 말을하는 내뱉은 이가 있으면 그게 친구든 동기든 친척이든 거리를 두어야 합니다. 금ㅂㅇ 그 수준으로 자신이 평가 절하되고 가치하락한 상태 그것이 정상으로 인식되어지고 월급수준 등이 나날이 하락울 시작합니다.
오늘 이 컬럼이 여기서 말하고자하는 것은 이게 아닌데 잠간 옆길이었네요.
보십시요. 손에 리모콘을 잡고 맘에 안드는 프로가 나오면 바꾸고 바꾸고 맘에 드는 재미나는, 신나는, 즐거운 프로 멋진 들고, 아주 불쾌한 느낌이 들고, 무엔가 불안한 느낌이 들고, ... 어떤 부정적인 무드일 때는 왜 더 깊은, 더 진한, 더 각박한, 더 비참한 끝없는 부정에서 부정으로 자신을 몰아가고 있습니까. 리모콘ㅇㄹ 들어 부정의 기분무드를 긍정의 기분무드로 전환시키십시요. 지금 '나'너그대우리 앞에는 항상 복과저주 성공과실패 행복과불행 축복과저주라는 두가지가 놓여 있습니다. 긍정으로 리모콘을 고정시키십시요. 그러나 꼭 기억해야할 한가지는 성공행복출세재벌은 옵션이 아닙니다. 필수 입니다.
지금 이 존 주말이 불행불안무기력불유코ㅔ하신가요 좋습니다. 그럼 지금 리모콘 마음의 리모컨을 들고 생각을 즐거움ㅇㅠ쾌함행복함으로 전환변형바꾸어보십시다
Here is something to make you laugh.
One night I was putting Maxim to bed. We were talking, and I realized that Maxim is Barbarino (from Welcome Back Kotter). He would say, "Where? Why? Who?" with a Jersey accent.
I immediately went on YouTube and looked up Vinnie Barbarino. I laughed so hard watching this.
This is my conversations with my two year old:
Enjoy this newsletter full of information on The Conditioned Mind, Training Videos (upcoming events section) Self-love (Divine Manifesting Section), and of course many videos to make you laugh and raise your vibration.
You see, most of us think that we are what our minds tell us. That is not always true. If your mind has been conditioned to tell you disempowering thoughts, and you believe those thoughts, you will then be disempowered and feel sad and depressed.
Your mind works like a computer. When you receive negative input about yourself, you store it in your subconscious mind and often express those messages in your negative behavior or feelings. Most of us are not taught how to talk back to these harmful messages and we believe them 100%. Most of us never challenge those thoughts that go through our minds. We just believe what those thoughts are telling us even if they are disempowering or irrational.
When we were children, if people talked to us with positive, uplifting and hopeful words, rather than critical or harsh words, we would now talk to ourselves with positive and uplifting thoughts. But, if you were talked down to, shamed, compared to another, or made to feel guilty, you most likely have negative programming running through your mind.
Most people do not understand how important thoughts are and what effects they have on us. These negative thoughts affect your moods and can lead to anxiety, depression, and emotional pain. Negative thoughts affect our ability to work, to relate to other people, and our physical health.
Do you want the good news?
THOUGHTS CAN BE CHANGED!!!!!
Unless you become the witness to your thoughts, they are automatic. Since they just happen, they can take over and they are not always true or correct. You don't have to believe every thought that goes through your head. It is so important to be aware of your thoughts and determine if they empower you or disempower you.
If you are feeling negative emotions, it is a very good indication that you are thinking negative thoughts, especially about yourself.
You can train your thoughts to be positive and empowering and create positive life experiences, or you can just allow your old negative and disempowering thoughts to create negative life experiences. It truly is up to you. You can learn to change your thoughts, and you can learn to change the way you feel.
As always, in this newsletter, there are teleseminars, resources, affirmations, and meditations to help you on your journey to empowerment.
This month I was interviewed by one of my Certified Quantum Success Coaching Academy coaches, Karl Gruber, for his thriving coaching practice. To listen to the interview, click here.
Also, be sure to check out my article "Life is a Game, Here Are the Rules" featured on the home page of SelfGrowth.com this week!
Have an amazing month and know that you deserve everything you desire and more!
Imagine and enjoy,
“Your outer reality is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself.”