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"무엇을 원하십니까"what do you want "무엇을 바라십니까"what do you desire. 이 두 질문에 대답해 보시겠습니까. "원하시는것"과 "바라시는것"의 차이가 보이십니까. 대답이 같습니까. 대답이 곤란하게 비슷하십니까. "원한다"는 것은 "없다'"부족하다""모자란다" 등의 부정적인negative에 그 뿌리를 드고 있는 반면 "바란다"는 것은 지금도 있다.누린다. 그러나 "좀 더 많은면 한다". "좀 더 멋지면한다" 등으로 긍정positive에 그 뿌리를 달고 있다. 이렇게 한 번 생각해 보실래요. 뭘 원한냐고 물을 때 "응 아파트 내 근사한 아피트 한 채 원한다" 이게 원한다는 전자의 해답이라면 그럼 다시 "왜 집일ㄲ"를 한 번 생각해 보십시요. 근사한 살집을 원하는 그 이유 말 입니다 그럼 이렇게 대답하시겠지요. "안정된 삶이 자노아""편안한 사회생활 할수 있잖아""이 나이에 성공한 사람으로 인정되어지잖아" 등의 내면에서 바라는 상태를 얘기할 것입니다.

자 이제 됐습니다. 어떤 경우라도 항상 정서emotion감정이란 것이 모든 것의 승자가 됩니다. 아파트 하 채가 원하는 것이고 그것은 온 주위로부터 성공한 인물로 인정받는 안정된 삶을 위한 것이라면 지근 당장 자신의 정서감정을 성공한자로 주변의선망의대상으로 안정된삶을 누리는 자로 자신의 정서emotion감정을 다스리십시요, 조정하십시요, 명령하십시요. 그러면 긇게 되어집니다. 정말로 실제 세상에서 선망의 대상으로상위1%의 일상일생을 누리시게 됩니다

I recently made a very interesting discovery that I am excited to share with you today. There is often a negative charge attached to the word 'Want' and that negative charge is most likely keeping you separate from those wants.

In the article today, I tell you how I discovered what was going on and a specific 3 step process you can use right away to shift the charge from negative to positive and become a magnet for your desires.

I'm excited for you to read this one, but I am even MORE excited about you using the 3 steps - definitely leave me a comment at lawofattractionkey.com to let me know your thoughts - I can't wait to hear what you have to say and love being able to help you along your journey!

Life Mastery Is Yours!

~ Kristen

"The subtle difference between want and desire is everything when it comes to living your dreams." -- Kristen Howe

The Truth about 'WANT'

By Kristen Howe

"What do you want?" can be a daunting question. We all ask it, of ourselves and others. I noticed so much resistance to it, that I tried something a little different with a few of my coaching clients.

Here's what I did - I sent out an email to a bunch of my clients and in the email I asked them 2 questions. The first question was "What do you want?" and the second question was "What do you desire?" Now, here is the crazy and cool thing that happened...

The answers to "What do you want" were all based in 1 of 2 things: 1. Not knowing
2. Lack

In other words, quite a few people said they don't know what they want and all of the other answers had a feeling of lack to them - like, "I want to be out of debt." Or "I want to lose 20 pounds." Or "I want to fix my marriage." - You get the idea...

On the other hand, the answer to "What do you desire" had a completely different energy to them. The best way to describe the difference is that these answers were based in positivity. Answers like, "I desire growth in my business that it is fulfilling, profitable and helps hundreds of thousands of people." Or, "I desire to have ultimate health." Or "I desire love to fill and fuel all of my relationships."

So, what's the point to all of this?

The point is that the word 'Want' seems to be rooted in negativity, low confidence, and lack. While the word 'Desire' seems to be rooted in positivity, love and faith.

I know it is just a difference of one word, but if that one word is making all of the difference, don't you want to make an adjustment? Remember, emotions always win, so if you emotionally connect a feeling of lack to the word 'Want' - then it's time for an adjustment. And, once you make this adjustment, both 'Want' and 'Desire' can become positively charged words for you that fuel you.

You can make this adjustment and begin to shift with 3 steps -

STEP 1: Discover what you really want - as I just said, emotions always win, so what is it you REALLY want? The best way to get to the bottom of this question is to realize that you want to identify the EMOTION you want instead of the THINGS.

For example: Let's say you have always wanted to own your own home. What is the emotion(s) you believe will come with owning your own home?

Let's say that you realize that the emotions that you feel will accompany owning your own home are, a sense of security, confidence and a feeling of success.

Then - a sense of security, confidence and a feeling of success are what you REALLY want.

The great news about identifying the emotions you want is that you open yourself up to infinite possibilities to feel those emotions (instead of just the one possibility of owning your own home.) AND, once you do this, you detach the negative, lack filled, connection to the word 'Want'.

Trust me, when you do just this one step, the chances of you finally having the THING you have wanted for so long, increases substantially.

STEP 2: Find out WHY - ask yourself WHY these emotions are what you really want? Is your answer based in fear, doubt, lack or any negativity of any kind? If so, no worries, you can discover the positively charged emotion by just flipping it around.

For example: Let's continue to use the earlier example of owning your own house - where you identified that the true emotions you want are a sense of security, confidence and a feeling of success. Now, when it comes time to ask WHY those emotions are what you want, if your answer is positive, GREAT (go ahead and move onto step 3) but if it is negative, such as, "I want to feel a sense of security so I don't have to rely on anyone else anymore." Then you want to flip it around like so "I want to feel a sense of security and know that all of my needs are easily met."

Pay attention and make sure you feel completely positive with all of your reasons WHY before you move on to step 3.

Living in the NOW gives you access to infinite creation and is the key to attracting what you DESIRE - find out the simple 3 steps here...

STEP 3: Transform the Want to a Desire! As I said, often 'Want' is negative and fueled by a feeling of scarcity - while 'Desire' is positive and full of possibility. This step may seem like a simple rephrasing, but believe me, it works! I want you to take what you discovered from BOTH step 1 and step 2 and swap out the word 'Want' with the word 'Desire'.

For example: 'I WANT a sense of security, confidence and a feeling of success.' becomes 'I DESIRE a sense of security, confidence and a feeling of success.'

And - 'I WANT to feel a sense of security and know that all of my needs are easily met.' Becomes 'I DESIRE to feel a sense of security and know that all of my needs are easily met.'

Use these 3 simple steps to transform your 'Wants' into 'Desires' and you will be amazed at the changes that start to happen in your life!

"Kristen

This interview with Bertrand Dory was simply amazing . I learned more about myself in this short time than I had over many years. You are brilliant. You are genuine. The real thing. You definitely have the gift of teaching and reaching out. This interview is a 'keeper' for reference and revelation.

Thank You.

Sincerely

-- Ron L."

Start to pay attention to how often you use the word 'Want' and when you notice it, instantly re-phrase whatever you just said or thought with the word 'Desire' instead. You will be blown away by the difference. Notice how finite 'Want' feels and how infinite 'Desire' feels - you are infinite - it's time to step into your full possibility!